你要意识到生活充满意想不到的事情.docx

你要意识到生活充满意想不到的事情你要意识到生活充满意想不到的事情Oneday,ayoungmanwascleaningouthislategrandfather'sbelongingswhenhecameacrossabrightredenvelope.Writtenonthefrontwerethewords,"Tomygrandson."Recognizinghisgrandfather'shandwriting,theboyopenedtheenvelope.Aletterinsideread:有一天，一位年轻人在整理他已故祖父的遗物时，偶然发现了一个鲜红色的信封。信封上面写着“我的孙子亲启”。年轻人认出是他祖父的笔迹，就打开了那个信封，里面的信写着：DearRonny,亲爱的罗尼，Yearsagoyoucametomeforhelp.Yousaid,"Grandpa,howisitthatyou'veaccomplishedsomuchinyourlife?You'restillfullofenergy,andI'malreadytiredofstruggling.HowcanIgetthatsameenthusiasmthatyou'vegot?"多年前，你向我寻求帮助。你问：“爷爷，您是怎么在一生中取得那么大的成就?您仍旧充满活力，而我已经厌倦了奋斗。我怎样才能像您那样充满活力?”Ididn'tknowwhattosaytoyouthen.Butknowingmydaysarenumbered,IfigurethatIoweyouananswer.SohereiswhatIbelieve.那时候我不知道怎样回答你。我知道我剩下的日子不多了，我觉得我欠你一个回答。以下就是我所深信不疑的'。Ithinkalotofithastodowithhowapersonlooksatthings.Icallit'keepingyoureyeswideopen.'我认为保持活力与一个人如何看待事情息息相关。我把这称为“保持开阔的眼界”。First,realizethatlifeisfilledwithsurprises,butmanyaregoodones.Ifyoudon'tkeepwatchingforthem,you'llmisshalftheexcitement.Expecttobethrilledonceinawhile,andyouwillbe.首先，你要意识到生活充满意想不到的事情，而且大部分是惊喜。如果你没有留意他们，你将失去生活一半的喜悦。期待着时不时感受到惊喜吧，你一定会的。Whenyoumeetupwithchallenges,welcomethem.They'llleaveyouwiser,stronger,andmorecapablethanyouwerethedaybefore.Whenyoumakeamistake,begratefulforthethingsittaughtyou.Resolvetousethatlessontohelpyoureachyourgoals.当你遇到挑战时，乐意地接受他们。他们会令你比以往变得更加聪明、坚强和能干。当你犯错误时，是要感激从中学到的教训，下定决心要利用这些教训来帮助你达成目标。Andalwaysfollowtherules.Eventhelittleones.Whenyoufollowtherules,lifeworks.Ifyouthinkyoueverreallygetbywithbreakingtherules,you'reonlyfoolingyourself.总是按规则办事，即便是一些小的规则也要遵守。当你遵守规则，生活就会顺心。如果你认为不遵守规则也能混得过去，那你只是在愚弄自己。It'salsoimportanttodecideexactlywhatyouwant.Thenkeepyourmindfocusedonit,andbepreparedtoreceiveit.明确自己的追求也很重要。明确以后就要专注的投入其中，准备好迎接他。Butbereadytoendupinsomenewplacestoo.Asyougrowwiththeyears,you'llbegivenbiggershoestofill.Sobereadyforendingsaswellaschallengingbeginnings.做好准备适