五种方式这样经营友情双语.docx

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五种方式这样经营友情双语
五种方式这样经营友情双语Easilythemostimportantplacetohaveafriendisinmarriage.Forthatreason,marriagecounselorscontinuallyadvisehusbandsandwivestobefriends,pointingoutthatyoumaydivorceyourspouse,butyoudon'tdivorceyourfriend.我们很容易想到，最喜欢朋友角色的地方就是婚姻。因此，许多婚姻顾问都建议丈夫和妻子成为彼此的朋友，因为你可以离开你的伴侣，但你绝对不会离开你的朋友。Friendshipstabilizesrelationshipsinthebusinessandsocialworldsaswell.Afriendshipispricelessandshouldbecherished,cultivated,andnurtured.友情同样在职场和社交生活中起稳固作用。友情无价，它需要被珍惜，培养和经营。1.Rememberingthegoldenrule牢记黄金准则Withoutadoubt,thegreatesthumanrelationsprincipleistotreatotherpeoplelikeyouwanttobetreated.Friendshiprequiresmanyqualities—unselfishness,genuinecarefortheotherperson,andtheabilitytolistenwhentheotherpersonneedstotalk,tonameafew.Whenyoushowrespectforyourfriendsandgratitudefortheirfriendship,you'llbeblessedinuntoldways.毋庸置疑，最坚不可摧的待人原则就是待人如己。友情需要许多品质：对他人无私，真诚的关怀，当他人需要时倾听对方的心声。当你表达对朋友的尊重和对这份友谊的感恩之情时，对你的庇佑和祝福也会通过各种方式来到你身边。Youcan'tknowwhathasgoneonintherudeperson'slifethatday,butyoucanassumethathisorherdayhasn'tgonewell.Maybealovedonelosthisjob,herbossreprimandedherunjustly,he'scomingdownwiththeflu,orshejustfoundoutthatherteenagerisdoingdrugs.也许你的朋友那天表现得非常粗鲁无礼，你也许不知道在他身上到底发生了什么，但你可以假设他/她过得并不开心。也许是爱人失业了，也许是她的老板训斥她办事不公，可能是他染了流感，抑或是她刚发现自己的孩子在吸毒。Whateverthecauseoftherudeness,youdon'thavetoaccentuatetheproblem.Akindwordoragentle,understandingsmilemayhelpthepersonmorethanreturnedrudenesswould.无论是什么理由让他/她如此野蛮无礼，你也不需要去强调人家的错误。比起同样粗鲁的行为，用一句友好的问候、一个善解人意的笑容作为回应，更能帮助他们。2.Consideringfoesasfriends视敌为友Afriendlooksafteryourowngood,isattachedtoyoubyaffection,andentertainsothersentimentsofesteem.Ontheotherhand,afoeissomeonewhoisn'tinterestedinyourwell-being.朋友会照顾你的利益，因为彼此的情感而重视支持你，认真对待你的情绪。相反，敌人不会在意你的幸福。Yetsomestudentsviewtheirteachersasenemies.However,astudent'ssuccessinschoolpartlydependsontheteacher'seffectivenessintheclassroom.Insteadofbeinganenemy,ateacherwhocorrectsyouandhelpsyoutoachievecanbethebestfriendyoueverhad.有些学生把他们的老师视为敌人。但是一个学生在学校里的成功部分是取决于老师在课堂上的成效。不要把他们当敌人，