

如果您无法下载资料,请参考说明:
1、部分资料下载需要金币,请确保您的账户上有足够的金币
2、已购买过的文档,再次下载不重复扣费
3、资料包下载后请先用软件解压,在使用对应软件打开
第PAGE\*MERGEFORMAT2页共NUMPAGES\*MERGEFORMAT2页 英语四级美文听力第25篇:DifferenceBetweenCultures DifferenceBetweenCulturesIhavealwaysfoundtheChinesetobeaverygraciouspeople.Inparticular,Chinesefrequentlycomplimentforeignfriendsontheirlanguageskills,knowledgeofChineseculture,professionalaccomplishments,andpersonalhealth.Curiously,however,Chineseareasloathtoacceptacomplimentastheyareeagertogiveone.AsmanyofmyChinesefriendshaveexplained,thisisamanifestationoftheChinesevirtueofmodesty.Ihavenoticedadifference,though,inthedegreetowhichmodestyisemphasizedintheUnitedStatesandChina.IntheUS,wetendtoplacemoreemphasison“seekingthetruthfromfact;”thus,Americanstendtoacceptacomplimentwithgratitude.Chinese,ontheotherhand,tendtorejectthecompliment,evenwhentheyknowtheydeservethecreditorrecognitionwhichhasbeenawardedthem.IcanimagineaChinesebasketballfanmeetingMichaelJordanoftheChicagoBulls.Hemightsay,“Mr.Jordan,Iamsohappytomeetyou.Ijustwanttotellyou,youarethebestbasketballplayerintheworld;you’rethegreatest!”towhichJordanwouldprobablyrespond,“Thankyouverymuch.Ireallyappreciateit!IjustdotrytodomybesteverytimeIsteponthecourt.”IfanAmericanmetDengYaping,China’spremierpingpongplayer,hemightsaymuchthesamething:“Ms.Deng,you’rethebest!”butasaChinese,Dengwouldprobablysay,“No,Ireallydon’tplayallthatwell.You’retoomuchkind.”Plainly,AmericansandChinesehavedifferentwaysofrespondingtopraise.Ironically,manyAmericansmightconsiderMs.Deng’shypotheticalresponsethelessmodest,becauseitislesstruthful—andthereforelesssincere.Americansgenerallyplacesincerityaboveetiquette;genuinegratitudeforthepraiseservesasasubstituteforprotestationsofmodesty.Afterall,inthewordsofoneofmyclosestChinesefriends,modestytakentotheextremeisarrogance.

王子****青蛙
实名认证
内容提供者


最近下载