2022=如何成为一个自信的人演讲稿.docx

2022=如何成为一个自信的人演讲稿=如何成为一个自信的人演讲稿Inmypastlifeasasoccercoach,onceyouwonanationalchampionship,everyonewantstocomeplayforyou.Reallynottrue.Onceyoupaidthem$25,000ayearinscholarships,everybodywantstocomeplayforyou.Andparentswouldalwayscometomeandthey’dsay:“Okay,mysonormydaughterwantstocomeplayatyouruniversity,whatisitthatwehavetodo?Youknow,whatareyoulookingfor?”AndbeingtheSocraticprofessorthatIam,Isay,well,whatdoesyoursonordaughterdo?Whatdotheydoreallywellthatwe’dbeinterestedin?Andtypicallytheiranswersare,well,they’vegotgreatvision.They’rereallygood.Theycanseetheentirefield.Or,mydaughteristhefastestplayer,there’snobodythatcanbeather.Or,myson’sgotagreatleft-footer.Reallygreatintheairandcanhiteveryball.I’mlike:“Yeah,notbad;buttobequitehonestwithyou,thosearethelastthingsI’mlookingfor.Themostimportantthing?Self-confidence.”Withoutthatskill,andIusethewordskillintentionally,withoutthatskill,weareuselessasasoccerplayer.Becausewhenyoulosesightorbeliefinyourself,we’redonefor.Iusethedefinitionofself-confidencetobetheabilityorthebelieftobelieveinyourself,toaccomplishanytask,nomattertheodds,nomatterthedifficulty,nomattertheadversity.Thebeliefthatyoucanaccomplishit–self-confidence.Someofyouaresaying,“Great,Idon’thaveit.I’msoshy.I’llneverdothat,bla,bla,bla.”Andyoustarttodragallthewaydownhere.But,IusethewordskillbecauseIbelieveitcanbetrained.AndI’llshowyouacoupleofwaysinwhichwedo.HopefullyIwon’trunoutoftime.Idon’tuseanyslidesbecausemyspeechalwaysgoeshere,orhere,orhere.Sowe’llseewhichwaywegetto.Theeasiestwaytobuildself-confidence:there’snomagicbutton.Ican’tsay:“Hey,thisplaneisgoingdown,whocanfly?Putyourhandup.”“Ican,I’mconfident!”Repetition,repetition,repetition.Right?WhatdoesMalcomGladwellcallit,the10,000-hourrule?There’snomagicbutton.IrecruitedagoaliefromColombia,SouthAmericaoneyear.Big,tall6’3″man.Youknow,hehadhandslikestone.IthoughthewaslikeFlipper.EverytimeIthrewhimtheball,down,ontotheground.Iwaslike,ohmy