英语讲稿-男人和女人的不同.docx

英语讲稿-男人和女人的不同

第一篇：英语讲稿-男人和女人的不同Asweknow,therearemanydifferencesbetweenmanandwoman.AboutsamethingManandwomanmayhavedifferentappoints.Forexamples,aboutFUTURE:Awomanworriesaboutthefutureuntilshegetsahusband.Amanneverworriesaboutthefutureuntilhegetsawife.AboutMONEY:Amanwillpay$2fora$1itemheneeds.Awomanwillpay$1fora$2itemthatshedoesn'tneed,butit'sonsale.AboutSUCCESS:Asuccessfulmanisonewhomakesmoremoneythanhiswifecanspend.Asuccessfulwomanisonewhocanfindsuchaman.AboutMARRIAGE:Awomanmarriesamanexpectinghewillchange,buthedoesn't.Amanmarriesawomanexpectingthatshewon'tchange!Andshedoes.Allofushavedifferentstylesofcommunicatingwithotherpeople.Ourstyledependsonalotofthings:wherewe'refrom,howandwherewewerebroughtup,oureducationalbackground,ourage,anditalsocandependonourgender.ClosingtheCommunicationGap，therearemanydifferencesinthewaymenandwomencommunicate.Youcanhavealookatwhatshethinksarethedifferencesin:facialexpression,speechpatterns,andbehavior.FacialExpressions:Mentendtococktheirheadtothesideandlookattheotherpersonfromananglewhenlistening.Womentendtolookattheotherpersondirectlyfacingthemwiththeirheadandeyesfacingforwardwhenlistening.Comparingwithwomen,menprovidefewerfacialexpressionsinfeedbackandfewerreactions.SpeechPatterns:Menspeakinaloudervoice.Womenspeakinasoftervoice.Menmakedirectblame(e.g.,“Youdon'tcall”).Womenmakemoreblame.Theyuse“why”,whichsoundslikecomplaining(e.g.,“Whydon'tyouevercall?”).Menmakemoredeclarativestatements(e.g.,“It'saniceday.”).Womenmakemorerhetoricalstatements(e.g.,“It'saniceday,isn'tit?”).Behavior:Womentrytofigurethingsoutontheirown.Theyaremorelikelytoaskforhelpandacceptit.Mentalkmoreaboutwhattheydid,wheretheywentandlessaboutrelationshipswithothers.Womentalkmoreabouthowtheyfeelandmoreaboutrelationshipswithothers.Atlast,Irecommendabooktoyou.Thenameofbookis“MenarefromMars,WomenarefromVenus”.ThebookiswrittenbyJohnray,apsychologist.Itfocusesonthemanandwoman’sunderstandablemisunderstandinginsixareas,includingdifferentvaluestreatmentofpressureindifferentw