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Parents:Calluswhenyouareintroubleandwe'llsparenoeffectstohelpyou.Boy:No,momanddad,Iwillmakeitbymyself.Parents:Butyou'llmakemistakesandbehurt.Boy:Don'tworry,MomandDad.Ipromisetoonlymakemistakesyounevermade.Don’beAfraidofMistakesForalongtime,weteenagersarelookingforwardtotheoutsideworld.Wealwaysthinkabouttheexcellentjobandthefriendlypeoplewewillmeet.Unknownastheyare,wefirmlybelievethattheyarealwaysthere,appearingsoonerorlaterandhelpingusliveaperfectlive.Withthissweetexpectationaboutthefuture,wehavegrownupdaybyday,butonlytofindthehugedifferencebeyondourexpectation.Wemakemistakesandliveanunhappylive.Whythereissuchhugedifferencebetweenfactandexpectation?Teensareunwillingandpositivetoacceptthefact.Couldn’ttheychangethissituation?Personally,toomuchhelpfromtheparentsconstantlycausealackofteens’self-relianceandindependence.Ontheotherhand,teens’lackofconfidenceandcouragenarrowsthemselvesdowntoacceptthemistakestheyhavemade.Tobehonest,parentsplayanimportantpartinchildren’slivesbecausethepowerofexamplesisalwaysmuchstrongerthananywords.Parents’actionwillinfluencechildren’sbehaviorsunconsciouslyandeasily.Didtheparentsacceptampleoutsidehelpwhentheywereteens?Mostnever.It’stheirself-relianceandindependencethatencouragedthemselvestocarryonwhentheymakemistakesevenfailed.It’stheneversay-dieattitudefromthedepthoftheirheartsthatdrovethemtotryagain,Therefore,parentsmustbestrictwithteens,encouragethemtotryagainandhelpthembuildaindependentcharacter.Justletthemgoandexperiencefailureandsuccess.Iftheymakemistakes,letthemmake.Maybethechildrenwouldbehurt,butonlyexperiencingthemistakesandcorrectingthemwillmaketheirchildrenmoreindependent.What’sworthmentioningisthatexampleisthemostpowerfulthingratherthanmoneyandtoomuchhelp.Asforteens,whenwemakemistakes,shouldwestopattempting?Shouldwegiveupourdreamsbecauseofsuchonemistake?Clearlytheanswerisno.Lifeisanendlesswaywithmistakesandtheprocessofcorrectingmistakes.Everycoinhastwosides.Wemaylosesomethingandbecomedesperatewhenwemakemistakes.However,makingthele